Soften The Heart: Devotional #24

“Jesus said to her, “Woman, believe Me, the hour is coming when you will neither on this mountain, nor in Jerusalem, worship the Father.

“You worship what you do not know; we know what we worship, for salvation is of the Jews.

“But the hour is coming, and now is when the true worshippers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for the Father is seeking such to worship Him.

The woman said to Him, “I know that Messiah is coming” (who is called Christ). “When He comes, He will tell us all things.”

Jesus said to her, “I who speak to you am He.”

John 4 21-26

After reading this full scripture it makes me think about times God has talked to me or communicated with me and I had not known. Just like the woman at the well.

I imagine her being like, “Uh, huh. Yeah when the Messiah is here he’s going to explain all of that.” And then here is Jesus like, “I’m Jesus Christ.”

What a humbling moment!

We think we know, and God reveals to us exactly that. We think we know. But we don’t. We have so much growing to do.

We are still children and acting as children do. No sense of boundaries, we hear what we want to hear, what are consequences you say?

I just described a toddler.

For some reason we think we know more than we actually do.

Eventually I feel like God makes it click for us, partly because of us His love for his children and because of his patience.

Then we begin to make the connections and understand.

If only we took things serious the first time could we have avoided some struggling. Maybe.

Let’s break down this scripture a little bit though.

What does “the hour is coming” mean?

When Jesus says “the hour is coming” in the scriptures, He is often referring to a specific moment or event in God’s divine plan, particularly His crucifixion, resurrection, and the coming of God’s kingdom. This phrase points to a future fulfillment of God’s purpose for salvation.

For instance, in John 4:23 as we read above, Jesus says, “The hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth.” Here, He’s referring to the future when worship will no longer be tied to specific locations or rituals but will be through a genuine connection with God.

In other passages, like John 12:23 (“The hour has come for the Son of Man to be glorified”), it refers to His upcoming death, where He would complete His mission on earth.

In summary, “the hour is coming” points to a pivotal moment in God’s plan, often linked to the transformative events in the life and ministry of Jesus.

But how do we worship the Father in spirit and in truth?

To worship the Father in spirit and truth, as Jesus describes in John 4:23-24, involves a deep, sincere connection with God that transcends external rituals and locations. Here’s how:

1. Worshiping in Spirit:

Worship in spirit means connecting with God on a spiritual level, from the heart and soul, rather than relying solely on outward acts or physical locations. It’s about an authentic relationship with God, led by the Holy Spirit, where worship is heartfelt, personal, and not limited to rituals or ceremonies. This kind of worship engages our whole being, aligning our spirit with God’s Spirit.

• Romans 8:14 says, “For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God.” Worshiping in spirit is being led by the Holy Spirit, letting Him guide our hearts, prayers, and lives in a way that honors God.

2. Worshiping in Truth:

Worship in truth refers to worshiping God as He truly is, in alignment with the truth revealed in His Word, the Bible. It means worshiping with sincerity and understanding of who God is, grounded in the knowledge of Scripture. Jesus is the embodiment of truth (John 14:6), and worshiping in truth involves acknowledging and following Him as the Way, the Truth, and the Life.

• Psalm 145:18 reflects this, stating,The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth.” Worship in truth rejects hypocrisy or superficial worship and embraces an honest, authentic pursuit of God.

In summary, worshiping in spirit and truth means bringing together heartfelt devotion and sincerity with a grounded understanding of God’s Word and His true nature. It’s worship that’s both inwardly genuine and outwardly aligned with God’s revealed truth in Scripture.

Wishing you love and blessings.

May our hearts and ears hear when God is speaking to us. And even so, may we continue to have greetings at the well.

May God never stop revealing himself to us even when we have lost our sight.

May we share our wisdom with others when God makes it very clear who He is to us.

May we honor the Father and The Son.

Amen.

10 Sore Throat Remedies And 6 Things To Avoid

Having a sore throat is awful! Especially those really painful kinds that every time you swallow it feels like your throat is catching on fire. Ugh, and if you’re experiencing that right now I am so sorry!! But you’ll get through it, okay!

I have some remedies for you! It won’t completely take the pain away but it will alleviate some of the discomfort until your body fully conquers the nasty virus!

Here for you.

10 Sore Throat Remedies

1. Saltwater Gargle: Mix 1/2 teaspoon of salt in a glass of warm water and gargle several times a day. This helps reduce swelling and clears irritants or bacteria.

*I’m not going to lie, every time I do this I just about gag. It’s effing disgusting but the salt helps to kill those mothereffers that are causing you pain*

2. Honey and Warm Water: Mix honey with warm water or herbal tea. Honey has natural antibacterial properties and can help coat and soothe the throat.

*THIS. Lots of this. Stick with the caffeine free tea though. Your body really needs to rest not that fake caffeine energy. Sometimes I even just get a spoon and put honey on it and eat it that way*

*I’ve also read about mixing honey with cayenne pepper*

3. Hydration: Drink plenty of fluids like water, warm herbal teas, or broths to keep your throat moist and help flush out any infection.

*I know this is so hard to do especially when your throat is THROBBING. And to just swallow takes courage. What I have found to be helpful is drinking through a straw. I fill up my tumbler with ice cold water and drink with a straw. I fill my mouth up with the water, tilt my head back, and then just let the water spill onto my throat.*

4. Warm Soups/Broths: Warm, soothing soups can provide comfort and hydration.

*get you some chicken noodle soup. This is proven to help, look it up!*

5. Throat Lozenges: These can help stimulate saliva production, which keeps your throat moist.

*These are hit or miss. Sometimes they help, and sometimes they just can steal that pain away. Always worth the try though.*

6. Humidifier: If dry air is irritating your throat, a humidifier can add moisture to the air, making it easier to breathe and reducing throat dryness.

*Night is always the worst. Especially when all you want to do is sleep. I can’t say I’ve ever tried this one but I may need to if I ever have a sore throat like this most recent one that I had. The dryness of my throat would wake me up and it felt like someone had cut my throat and it was bleeding out! If you don’t have a humidifier, I would suggest NyQuil for the nighttime. It will knock you out.*

7. Herbal Teas: Teas with ingredients like licorice root, chamomile, or slippery elm can be soothing for sore throats.

*as I mentioned previously, stick with caffeine free tea*

8. Apple Cider Vinegar: Mix 1 tablespoon of apple cider vinegar with warm water and honey. This can help break down mucus and fight bacteria.

*never tried this one. If you have, leave a comment below!*

9. Over-the-counter Pain Relievers: Medications like ibuprofen or acetaminophen can help with inflammation and pain.

*Yes to this, especially if your sore throat is accompanied with a fever.*

10. Vapor Rub: rub some on your throat and chest to help you breathe more easily and cough less. 

What To Avoid With A Sore Throat

When you have a sore throat, it’s good to avoid certain things that can irritate it or make it worse:

1. Spicy or Acidic Foods: Foods like citrus, tomatoes, and spicy dishes can irritate the throat further.

2. Dry, Crunchy, or Hard Foods: Chips, crackers, and other rough foods can scratch and aggravate the throat.

3. Caffeine and Alcohol: Both can dehydrate you, which can make the throat drier and more irritated.

4. Carbonated water/drinks: they can actually cause more irritation!

*I know drinking a carbonated drink feels so good on a sore throat. It does, like a super good burn. But you actually may doing more harm than good. Stick with the cold water and teas.*

5. Shouting or Talking Too Much: Resting your voice can help prevent further strain on your throat.

*you have my permissions to ignore every single call when you have a sore throat.*

6. Lemon: some people add lemon to their teas, however if your sore throat is sever AVOID adding lemon to your drinks.

*I know this one from experience. Another burn that feels good, but the next day your throat will feel WORSE! Don’t do it!*

Avoiding these irritants can help your throat heal faster and keep it more comfortable!

I’m so sorry friend that you are hurting right now. I know how that feels. The light is near. Get lots of rest. Sometimes these sore throats can last a couple of days! I had one that lasted 6 days and I kept saying Jesus take the wheel! It was horrible! You’ll get through this!

I hope this blog helped you.

Peace and love always.

Book Club Questions – General, Deeper Exploration, And Emotional

General Questions

1. What themes stood out to you the most in this book?

2. How did the characters evolve throughout the story?

3. Were there any moments that surprised or shocked you? Why?

4. What was your favorite quote or passage from the book, and why?

5. How did the setting impact the story?

6. Did you find the ending satisfying? Why or why not?

7. How did the book’s structure (chapters, time jumps, narrative style) affect your reading experience?

8. What did you think of the author’s writing style?

9. If you could change one thing about the book, what would it be?

10. Did the book remind you of any other books, movies, or personal experiences?

Character-Focused Questions

1. Which character did you relate to the most, and why?

2. Were there any characters you struggled to understand or sympathize with?

3. How did the relationships between characters develop or change throughout the book?

4. Did you find any of the characters particularly inspiring or frustrating?

Deeper Exploration

1. How do you think the book would have been different if told from another character’s perspective?

2. What social, political, or cultural issues did the book address, and how effectively were they explored?

3. Were there any symbols or motifs you noticed in the book? What do you think they represented?

4. If this book were adapted into a movie, who would you cast in the main roles?

Emotional Exploration

1. What emotional journey did each character go through to reach the relationship’s outcome?

2. Were there any moments that made you feel frustrated with the characters?

3. Did you find the ending satisfying for the romance, or would you have preferred a different conclusion?

4. What did the book say about love or relationships that resonated with you?