First of all I want to acknowledge this awesome photo who I wish I knew who to give the credit to. I love how it depicts stress. We can appear calm but be fuming on the inside where it feels like our heads are actually on fire and we are covered in dark, heavy smoke.
We may be so use to the smoke that it’s just become apart of our day to day life. With this blog I want to extinguish some of that fire and help you to see through the smoke.
Your heads still going to catch on fire from time to time let’s be honest but maybe we can make a fire extinguisher more accessible for you and for others.
10 Questions About STRESS Answered – Gaining More PEACE In Your Life Gives More PEACE To Others
1. First of all what is stress? How is it defined?
Stress is a feeling of emotional strain and pressure. Stress is feeling out of control. Stress is a state of mental or emotional strain or tension resulting from adverse or very demanding circumstances. It’s feelings of tension.
Stress is your body’s reaction to a change or challenge. Stressors can be positive and negative.
2. How do we react when we are stressed?
There are mental, physical, and behavioral ways of reacting to stress.
Examples of mental could include feeling overwhelmed, loosing your temper, feelings of irritability, thoughts of self harm, racing thoughts, etc.
Examples of physical could include headaches, digestive problems, muscle tension, even your breathing can change.
Examples of behavioral could include jaw clenching, biting your nails, even becoming verbally or physically aggressive.
3. Who gets stressed?
EVERYONE experiences stress. Even babies and children.
4. What are things that cause stress?
An overall answer to which causes stress could be lack of control over a situation.
Common examples could include; life changes, work, family, financial problems, health.
Not so common examples could include; unrealistic expectations and even procrastination.
Most things that cause stress fall under one of those categories above.
5. When do you feel stressed?
- When you are under lots of pressure.
- When you face big changes in your life.
- When you are worried about something.
- When you don’t have much or any control over the outcome of a situation.
- When you have responsibilities that you find overwhelming.
- When you don’t have enough work, activities or change in your life.
6. Does our stress affect the people around you?
The short answer is ABSOLUTELY. There is such a thing called ‘secondhand stress or stress contagion’ if you can believe it!
Stress from others can affect your own stress levels even if there is no direct interaction.
Stress contagion can happen through social and biological mechanisms, such as pheromones, social cues, and emotional expression. For example, people are four times more likely to catch stress from someone they know, such as family, friends, or coworkers.
People that are stressed release a chemical that can be inhaled by those around them, causing these people to become more anxious, as well.
Read more about it here.
7. Can you be stressed and not even know it?
Yes. Feeling unwell or becoming sick could actually be caused by stress.
Many of us are so used to feeling stressed that we may not even know it until we get sick.
Often times we also mistake anxiety for stress.
8. What happens if we ignore stress?
Ignoring our stress can lead to poor mental health and physical health over time which can take a toll on your body and open all sorts of un-fun doors. Obesity, diabetes, heart problems, and that’s just to name a few.
9. Why does stress happen?
It happens to help us, ultimately. Stress is the bodies response to pressure.
When we are stressed our body releases adrenaline and the hormone cortisol. Cortisol is “natures built in alarm system.” It’s a steroid hormone that our body releases in response to stress to reduce inflammation.
10. How can we reduce the stress in our lives?
There are many ways that we can reduce stress in our lives.
Examples include:
- Good sleeping/eating habits
- Yoga
- Meditation
- Exercising
- Asking for help
- Decluttering
- Going for walks
- Saying NO
- Mindful breathing
- Making time for hobbies
- Acknowledgement of our stress
- Connecting with others
And that’s just a few!
Overall stress isn’t going ANYWHERE but understanding it and acknowledging it is one way we can learn to better flow with it.
And when we can better flow with it we will develop more peace in our lives and give back more peace to those we love around us.
Lots of love always,
Marie