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Soften The Heart #34 – Jesus Is The Window

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“The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness has not overcome it.”

John 1:5

Today I was on my blog and had the opportunity to see what I wrote on “this day”.

I wrote about opening your windows more. You can read that blog here .

As I was rereading this blog that I wrote I took a moment to think about a window. I know what a window is I thought…….but how is an actual window defined.

Window: an opening especially in the wall of a building for admission of light and air that is usually closed by casements or sashes containing transparent material (such as glass) and capable of being opened and shut

What stood out the most was a window is an admission for light and capable of being opened and shut.

Light exists in the world. We already know this but I think many forget to question or wonder, “wait, where does this light actually come from?” “where is the window then?”

There must be a window open somewhere letting this light in? How are we able to receive this?

And this is what came to my mind…..

Jesus is the window. God is the window.

A window is something on a door or wall that allows light in, correct?

Some people are in a dark room with light shielding curtains on. We can even say, full on black out curtains. Metaphorically.

Overtime however, many people forget they have a window in their room. They have become so accustomed to the darkness. They don’t believe light even exists. Or maybe they can’t find the window because of how dark it actually is.

When in truth all they have to do is find the window, open the curtains and open the window that is behind it. 

The window has always been there. Ready to be opened to let light in. And as easily as it is to open it it’s just as easy to close and cover it.

Now,

there are those who live in a bright room. And they too become forgetful. They have become so use to the light that they actually forget where the light comes from. 

That the light they are receiving is because of an opened window.

It’s so easy to take light for granted…….

If you have light in your room be grateful because there are many in a dark room and they need help finding that window. They truly believe darkness is all that is but you know the truth.

Or maybe you have taken the light for granted. Take a moment to thank the window that is opened for you and letting you receive light.

Whether your room is darkness or in light the thing is, there is window. And YOU control what you want your room to be.

If you want that window opened, you have to eagerly search for it.

Because darkness isn’t real my friend, it’s the absence of light.

Be True To Your *ESSENCE*

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There is something within you that is completely unique, something that cannot be replicated, replaced, or erased. It’s not just your personality, your talents, or the roles you play in life—it’s something deeper. It’s your essence.

Your essence is the energy you bring into the world, the way you see things, the quiet knowing in your soul that whispers who you truly are. It’s not something you have to create—it’s something you already are. But in a world that constantly tells us who we should be, it’s easy to drift away from it.

The Layers That Cover You

From the moment we’re born, we absorb expectations. We learn to behave in ways that make others comfortable. We mold ourselves to fit in, to be accepted, to avoid rejection. Over time, layers build up—layers of what we think we should be.

• The layer of people-pleasing, where we silence our own needs to keep the peace.

• The layer of comparison, where we measure ourselves against others and feel like we come up short.

• The layer of self-doubt, where we hesitate to step into who we truly are.

But your essence is still there, waiting beneath it all. The real question is—are you listening to it?

Recognizing Your Essence

Being true to your essence doesn’t mean you have to be the loudest voice in the room. It doesn’t mean you have to change who you are—it means returning to who you’ve always been.

Ask yourself:

• When do I feel most alive?

• What makes me lose track of time?

• When do I feel like myself, without trying?

Your essence shines when you are in flow—whether that’s through creativity, deep conversations, being in nature, teaching, writing, moving your body, or simply being present.

Letting Go of What Isn’t Yours

To be true to your essence, you have to let go of the things that aren’t truly you. Not the parts of you that change and evolve, but the ones that were never yours to carry.

• Let go of the need to be understood by everyone—your essence is not for approval, it’s for expression.

• Let go of who you thought you had to be—growth is natural, but forcing yourself into a mold is not.

• Let go of the fear of shining—playing small doesn’t serve your soul.

Living in Alignment

Once you start honoring your essence, things begin to feel lighter. You no longer exhaust yourself trying to fit into a version of yourself that wasn’t meant for you. Instead, you:

• Speak with authenticity instead of saying what’s expected.

• Make choices that resonate instead of following a script.

• Surround yourself with people who see the real you instead of who they want you to be.

And the beautiful thing? The more you embrace your true essence, the more you inspire others to do the same.

You Are Here for a Reason

The world doesn’t need another copy. It doesn’t need you to shrink, shift, or shape yourself to fit someone else’s version of you. It needs you as you are.

So today, take a deep breath. Feel the weight of expectations fall away. And remember—being true to your essence is not something you have to earn. It’s something you simply have to allow.

Be you. Unapologetically. Completely. Fully. The world is better for it.