I Read This Fortune Cookie About BOREDOM

What bores you?

A few years ago I read this in a fortune cookie and these words changed me.

If you are bored, you are not being curious enough.”

Don’t you just love that! This is exactly what I tell my kids too every time they say they are bored.

“Mom we’re bored….”

“Well……if you’re bored you’re not being what?”

“Curious enough.”

*walk away and find something to do.*

I don’t get bored anymore. I can find something in anything.

For me, everything can be an experience.

Just close your eyes once in a while and let your other senses highlight your world and reveal something entirely extraordinary.

To avoid boredom is to strengthen your imagination. You don’t have to bored, you need to stay curious and not be afraid to be a little weird and different.

I Love Being Around People Who Think Differently – The Ones That Can Keep A Convo Curious

Who are your favorite people to be around?

The deep thinkers. The curious ones. The ones who wonder and ponder. The questioners.

And how weird to be encouraged with this question today when just last night I was sharing with my husband that I felt like I didn’t have much friends who understood me.

I have friends. But don’t we all want and crave friendships where we are seen. And who are like minded like us? Who doesn’t just brush us off as being weird or different.

If we really want to be honest, I am you, and you are me. So…..we might as well just be honest and say how we really feel. Surface level conversations are painful. I want depth!

Or, what’s a bummer is you do establish friendships where you feel in alignment, only to discover that you really weren’t.

I am in a season where it’s difficult for me to be around people who don’t love themselves or who are not confident in who they are. OR, it’s difficult to be around people who just aren’t even trying to be 1% better everyday.

And more than that, people who don’t allow me to show them how to love themselves.

Some people just don’t want to listen and thats the most frustrating part.

I can help more than people give me credit for but I also understand everyone is on their own journey. So I wait in way……

I will say I am so incredibly grateful for my blog and the internet because I know that there are people out there who think or ponder in a similar way and who are striving to be and do better everyday.

It’s rejuvenating.

And I thank you readers and writers.

You all are my people.

You all, are who I LOVE to be around.

I’m Not The Biggest Fan Of Shoes – I Have A Challenge For You

Tell us about your favorite pair of shoes, and where they’ve taken you.

Currently my favorite pair of shoes are not typically categorized as shoes, they are actually my slippers.

They are these light beige, slip on, clog style slippers and they are so cozy. They are not brand name or anything really special. But it’s like, being wrapped in a blanket. My body is immediately safe when I wear them.

I prefer to be grounded in comfort.

I really don’t like shoe’s honestly. I wear them when I need to but I prefer my slippers, being barefoot, or probably wearing a pair of slip on sandals.

You ever notice how kids strongly dislike wearing shoes? They always want to be barefoot.

There’s something to that. What are your thoughts?

I remember I also read something awhile back that said many people haven’t actually touched the earth with their feet in years.

Why? Because they are always wearing shoes.

You put shoes on, go where you go, come home, take off shoes, repeat.

If it’s been awhile since your feet have actually touched earth I dare you to do that today.

Stand on the earth and feel it.

The Gift Of Awareness, The Gift Of Love

Share one of the best gifts you’ve ever received.

Well…..I think the opportunity to be here is a pretty huge gift.

It’s pretty wild when you really sit and ponder that.

We are here, all together. And why exactly? That’s still quite the mystery.

Regardless, we are here. I get this experience right now.

Have I been here before? I have no idea, maybe I have and don’t remember.

But being here now, in this moment. I recognize that to be alive IS a gift.

My awareness is the gift.

And it’s the most bizarre thing, sometimes I feel like I’m in a dream.

But I rather have this unsettling beautiful awareness than to be oblivious of this insane miracle, which is exactly what it all is.

It’s all so weird.

What Comes To Mind With Budgeting

Write about your approach to budgeting.

Intention.

Deciphering needs vs. wants.

Health is wealth.

  1. Intention

When I buy/purchase something there has to be intention behind it. I don’t just buy because it’s “a good deal” or “oh it’s on sale.” To me personally, that is the road to unnecessary items and clutter.

There needs to be a good why behind the purchase. And I ask how often will I/they use this item…what am I really getting back in return? Don’t buy just to buy. Let it be strong why.

2. Needs Vs. Wants

Most of the time, it’s just a want. You probably don’t need. How many times do we buy things and it ends up getting donated a few months later or years.

Here’s a tip though: don’t be afraid to ask your friends or family for something that you want. Just the other day I went onto my Facebook to ask if anyone had a paper shredder or blender they no longer wanted or needed because I want to learn how to make paper.

No one said they had a blender but guess what? Someone said they had a paper shredder they could give me. I have done this countless times. Don’t afraid or ashamed or embarrassed.

People have stuff, and truthfully they want to get rid of it. They will feel good giving it away to someone they know.

So don’t be afraid to ask around before you spend unnecessary money that really could go towards something else….like a trip somewhere!

3. Health Is Wealth

THIS. Invest in your health. Groceries can be expensive for example, but what I am getting in rerun is FAR greater.

But health is more than body, it’s mind and spirit.

This is the area where there is no budget to me because of the state of well being you get back.

That is priceless.

****parents****

I will say this, stop wasting your money on little party bags. Kids do not need them. The honest truth is most of the party favor bags end up in the trash or donated. Save your money. The party and the kids having a good time is ENOUGH, I promise you.

The Collapse Before The Finish Line

The collapse before the finish line……

do you know what I’m talking about?

Those runners who begin a strenuous marathon….at first the momentum is strong. The adrenaline is pumped, they are excited, they are waving to people!

Then, towards the middle the smile turns into a smirk, the pace has become slowed, they are focusing on their breathing, one step at a time….

Towards the end, they see the actual finish line.

That’s when the tears come, all of sudden they become so weak though they are so close! So close! The finish line is right there!

And then they either finish strong through the grace of God or who knows ..or they collapse…….

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But what happens then…….

Support comes. Family, friends, even strangers carry that runner to the finish line. They cross together. Celebrating strength, growth, perseverance, determination, courage, bravery……

There are people who are collapsing right now. They need your help. They are so close to that finish line but they cannot do it without your help.

There are so many ways we can encourage, support, and lift others. And the smallest ways believe it or not are the most powerful.

Be that person. And let others CARRY YOU TOO.

You have to let others carry you too!

Love and light my friends. We got this!

Why Don’t We All Want to Heal?

Lately, I’ve been sitting with a question that keeps returning to me:

Why don’t more people want to do the work of inner healing and change?

Not in a judgmental way.

More in a quiet, wondering way.

Because once you begin that work, once you start peeling back the layers, tending to old wounds, and inviting God into the hidden places — something shifts. Life doesn’t become perfect, but it becomes lighter. Clearer. More honest.

And from that place, it can be hard to understand why someone wouldn’t want that too.

I think part of it is this: healing asks for truth. And truth can feel terrifying when you’ve spent years surviving by avoiding it.

The Bible says, “The light exposes everything” — and exposure requires courage. Not everyone is ready to look at themselves without armor.

There’s also comfort in what’s familiar.

Even pain can feel safe when it’s all you’ve known. Change asks us to release identities we’ve built around wounds, stories we’ve repeated so often they’ve started to feel like home.

Scripture reminds us that people sometimes “love darkness rather than light,” not because they are bad, but because light asks something of them.

And then there’s humility. Inner healing isn’t about self-improvement alone — it’s about surrender. Admitting we don’t have it all figured out. Letting God lead us somewhere new. “God gives grace to the humble,” but humility is a doorway many are afraid to walk through.

Jesus once asked a man who had been suffering for years,

“Do you want to be healed?”

It seems like an obvious question, until you realize it isn’t.

Healing changes everything.

What I’ve learned is this: the work is deeply personal. You can’t drag someone into transformation. You can’t convince soil to be ready for seed. The same seed is offered, but each heart receives it differently.

So instead of trying to wake anyone up, I try to live awake.

I try to embody the peace that comes from inner work.

The softness that comes from forgiveness.

The strength that comes from renewal.

Be transformed by the renewing of your mind,” Scripture says — not by forcing others to change, but by allowing yourself to be changed.

Maybe that’s how healing spreads.

Quietly.

Gently.

By example.

And maybe those who are meant to begin their own journey will recognize something familiar in the light …..

and follow it when they’re ready.

Nourishing Your Inner Autumn: Foods That Support Mood & Emotional Grounding

There are seasons not just outside of us, but within us.

Inner Autumn is the phase where life invites us to slow down, soften, and settle inward. It’s a time of reflection, emotional processing, and gentle release. Energy naturally turns quieter. Moods can feel heavier. Sensitivity increases. And what we consume—physically and emotionally—matters more than ever.

In Inner Autumn, food becomes less about fuel and more about comfort, grounding, and emotional steadiness. This is the season of warmth, nourishment, and being held.

🍠 Grounding Foods for Emotional Stability

Autumn energy asks us to root down. Earthy foods help stabilize emotions, calm the nervous system, and create a sense of safety within the body.

Think:

Sweet potatoes Squash (butternut, pumpkin, acorn) Carrots, parsnips, beets Oats Brown rice and quinoa

These foods help regulate blood sugar, which plays a huge role in mood swings, irritability, and anxiety. When blood sugar is steady, emotions tend to feel steadier too.

🥣 Warm & Nourishing Meals (A Nervous System Reset)

Inner Autumn doesn’t crave cold or rushed meals. It wants warmth, slowness, and intention.

Some comforting options:

Soups and stews Bone broth or vegetable broth Slow-cooked meals Warm or room-temperature smoothies with gentle spices

Warm foods tell the body it’s safe to relax. They’re grounding, soothing, and deeply regulating for the nervous system.

Think of these meals as a quiet exhale.

🥜 Mood-Boosting Fats for the Brain & Heart

Healthy fats play a powerful role in emotional health. They support hormone balance, brain function, and serotonin production—the “feel good” chemical.

Autumn-friendly fats include:

Avocado Olive oil Nuts and seeds Nut butters

Pumpkin seeds are especially supportive this time of year. They’re rich in magnesium and zinc, both of which help with stress resilience and mood regulation.

🍎 Gentle Sweetness for the Soul

Autumn often awakens a desire for sweetness—not from excess, but from comfort.

Instead of sharp sugar spikes, opt for natural, warming sweetness:

Baked apples or pears Dates and figs A drizzle of honey or maple syrup

Warm fruit satisfies emotional cravings while keeping energy balanced. It’s sweetness without the crash—joy without the chaos.

🌿 Warming Spices That Soothe Emotionally

Spices are powerful in Inner Autumn. They increase circulation, add warmth, and gently uplift mood.

Some favorites:

Cinnamon Nutmeg Ginger Turmeric Cloves

These spices don’t just warm the body—they bring emotional comfort. They help soften melancholy and create a feeling of inner glow.

🫖 Comforting Drinks for Emotional Ease

Sometimes nourishment comes in liquid form.

Autumn-friendly drinks include:

Chamomile tea Ginger or cinnamon tea Tulsi (holy basil) Warm almond milk with cinnamon or turmeric

These drinks invite stillness. They’re rituals, not just beverages.

What to Gently Reduce During Inner Autumn

This isn’t about restriction—just awareness.

You may notice improved mood when you reduce:

Excess caffeine Cold or raw foods High sugar intake Skipping meals

Inner Autumn thrives on rhythm, warmth, and consistency.

A Gentle Reminder 🍁

Inner Autumn is not a season of productivity.

It’s a season of tending.

Tending to emotions.

Tending to energy.

Tending to the quiet wisdom within.

Mantra:

I nourish myself slowly. I don’t need to rush to bloom.”

Let food be one of the ways you honor where you are—right now.

Things CAN Get Worse

You know something I never say, “it can’t get worse than this.”

Call me superstitious or what but I’ve watched enough movies and read enough books that prove the point that it can and possibly will be worse when you test the theory.

Last year towards the end of 2024 my mom had an incredibly rough year.

She lost both of her parents. It happened very fast. My Grandma was in her early 80s and my Grandpa was in his 90s. My grandma passed and then 80 days later my grandpa.

During that ordeal my mom broke her ankle and was healing and plus she had been dealing with all sorts of family drama from her side. It was a nightmare for her. That’s actually an understatement.

Anyways one day we were talking on the phone and she was expressing how she was ready for the new year and that it can only go up from here not get any worse.

I said, “mom don’t say that.”

And she was like, “what..”

and I said, “saying things can’t get worse. They always can. You’ve watched movies! You just don’t say that!”

And then she was like, “wow marie, I didn’t realize how superstitious you were.”

And I was like, “‘mom that’s just truth. Same with if you want to make God laugh you tell him your plans.”

Well guess what you guys…….

My moms foot is still healing by the way but she calls me yesterday and says,

Marie, I still want you to come up and visit….but umm….”

Me – “mom what is it?”

Her – “I slipped on some ice and broke my back ribs.”

*silence*

Me – “mom!! Are you serious!!! Mom!! This is what i told you! You said it can only go up from here and not get worse and you just broke your ribs!”

Her – “Marie don’t make me laugh, it hurts. I am never saying that again.”

lol oh my gosh. Thank goodness my mom has a great sense of humor and was in good spirits and we had a really good laugh about it.

But let this be a lesson folks!

Don’t test the unknown.

Vanilla Cookie Banana Pudding

What You Need:

In one bowl:

1 3.4 oz box of French vanilla jello pudding mix

1 3.4 oz box of banana cream jello pudding mix

1 block of cream cheese

1 14oz can of sweetened condensed milk

4 cups of milk

1 tablespoon of vanilla extract

In second bowl:

1 1/2 cup of heavy whipping cream

3/4 cup of powdered sugar

1 tablespoon of vanilla extract

A dash of cinnamon

You also need vanilla wafers and biscoff cookies


Steps:

  1. Mix together all ingredients in bowl number 1 and in bowl number two. Cover each bowl and place in the refrigerator for 30 mins.
  2. After the 30 mins mix together the two mixtures.
  3. Begin your layering. Thin layer of pudding mix, cookie, pudding, cookie, pudding.
  4. Top off the pudding with crushed vanilla wafers and biscoff cookies.

Enjoy!

*you can add fresh banana – optional*