The Wild Gems

Money Isn’t Lost; It’s Transferred Into Abundance

February 5, 2025 The Wild Gems2 Comments

We often look at money through the lens of subtraction. You swipe your card, hand over cash, and—poof—it’s gone.

There’s an almost automatic reaction of stress or scarcity, especially when the numbers in your bank account shrink.

But what if we shifted that mindset? What if, instead of seeing money as something that’s lost, we saw it as something that’s transferred into abundance?

When you spend $200 on groceries, it’s easy to focus on the dent it made in your budget. But pause for a moment. What did you receive in return? You didn’t just “lose” $200—you exchanged it for shelves stocked with food to nourish your family. You gained the convenience of not having to hunt, gather, or grow that food yourself. You have fresh produce, snacks for your kids, meals that will bring your family together around the table. That’s not a loss. That’s abundance.

Think about your morning coffee. Maybe you spend $5 at your favorite café. It’s not just coffee—it’s a warm ritual that starts your day, crafted by someone else so you didn’t have to grind the beans, boil the water, and perfect the brew. That small purchase buys comfort, convenience, and a little moment of joy.

Money is always an exchange. It’s never just disappearing into the void. It’s flowing—transforming into goods, services, experiences, and opportunities. The key is to recognize what it’s transforming into.

When we approach spending with gratitude for what we receive, the stress tied to money begins to loosen. Instead of thinking, “I had $200, and now I don’t,” we can think, “I’ve exchanged $200 for nourishment, convenience, and the ability to provide for my family.”

This mindset shift doesn’t ignore the importance of budgeting or financial responsibility. It simply reframes how we view the natural flow of money in and out of our lives.

By seeing spending as an investment in abundance—whether it’s food, shelter, education, or small joys—we soften the grip of scarcity thinking.

Now, just to be clear—I’m not saying,

“Okay, go wild and buy everything your heart desires!” — (“Put the online shopping cart down…don’t say YES to everything in your amazon “save for later” list.)

I’m simply offering a new way to look at your money—a way to encourage a healthier, more abundant relationship with it. One where spending isn’t just a loss, but a conscious exchange that brings value into your life.

So the next time you feel that sting of spending, ask yourself:

What abundance did I just receive in return?

This shift of mindset will also allow you to see how many blessings truly surround you.

The Sacral Chakra: Embracing Flow, Creativity, and Emotional Freedom

February 5, 2025 The Wild Gems2 Comments

After grounding ourselves with the stability of the Root Chakra, we move upward to the Sacral Chakra, known in Sanskrit as Svadhisthana, which means “one’s own dwelling place.”

Located just below the navel, this chakra is the center of our creativity, emotions, sensuality, and pleasure. It’s where we begin to experience life beyond survival—where we tap into the flow of feelings, connections, and self-expression.

If the Root Chakra is the foundation, the Sacral Chakra is the river that flows from it, carrying the vibrant currents of our passions, desires, and emotional experiences.

A Glimpse into the History

The concept of the Sacral Chakra comes from ancient Indian spiritual traditions, first mentioned in the Vedas and later detailed in texts like the Upanishads. It’s symbolized by a six-petaled lotus flower and is associated with the color orange, representing warmth, vitality, and creativity. The element connected to this chakra is water, reflecting its qualities of flow, adaptability, and emotional depth.

Signs Your Sacral Chakra May Be Blocked

When the Sacral Chakra is out of balance, you might feel emotionally stuck or disconnected from your creativity and sense of joy. Here are some signs to look for:

• Emotional Imbalance: Mood swings, feeling overwhelmed, or emotionally numb

• Creative Blocks: Struggling to express yourself or feeling uninspired

• Relationship Issues: Difficulty forming or maintaining healthy, intimate connections

• Guilt and Shame: Holding onto past regrets or feeling unworthy of pleasure

• Physical Symptoms: Lower back pain, hip issues, reproductive problems, or bladder issues

A blocked Sacral Chakra can make life feel rigid, as if the natural flow of emotions and creativity has been dammed up.

How to Unblock and Balance Your Sacral Chakra

Restoring balance to the Sacral Chakra is all about reconnecting with your emotions, creativity, and body. Here are some ways to nurture this energy center:

1. Embrace Creativity: Paint, write, dance, cook—anything that allows you to express yourself without judgment.

2. Move Your Body: Gentle hip-opening stretches, yoga poses like Goddess Pose (Utkata Konasana) or Pigeon Pose (Eka Pada Rajakapotasana) help release tension.

3. Connect with Water: Spend time near water, take relaxing baths, or even visualize a flowing river to help restore emotional flow.

4. Affirmations: Repeat affirmations like, “I allow myself to feel deeply,” or “I am creative, passionate, and full of joy.”

5. Honor Your Emotions: Give yourself permission to feel without labeling emotions as “good” or “bad.” They’re all part of the human experience.

6. Sensory Experiences: Engage your senses—light candles, listen to music, savor delicious food, and surround yourself with colors that inspire warmth and joy.

The Gift of the Sacral Chakra

When your Sacral Chakra is balanced, you feel alive, inspired, and emotionally connected—to yourself, to others, and to the world around you. You flow with life’s ups and downs, embracing both the joys and the lessons with openness.

Remember, your emotions and creativity are not something to suppress or fear—they’re the very essence of what makes you uniquely you. Let yourself feel, create, and flow.

Your spirit wasn’t meant to stay still; it was meant to flow with purpose.

Root Chakra: Finding Your Ground in a Shifting World

February 4, 2025 The Wild Gems2 Comments

At the very base of your spine, there’s an invisible yet powerful energy center known as the Root Chakra—or in Sanskrit, Muladhara, which translates to “root support.” Just like the roots of a tree anchor it firmly into the earth, your Root Chakra is the foundation that keeps you feeling safe, stable, and grounded in the world.

Understanding the Root Chakra isn’t just about energy; it’s about connecting to the most basic parts of being human—our need for security, belonging, and survival.

A Glimpse Into Its History

The concept of chakras comes from ancient Indian traditions, first mentioned in the Vedas over 2,000 years ago. In these teachings, chakras are seen as spinning wheels of energy that influence our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being.

The Root Chakra is considered the first chakra, located at the base of the spine near the tailbone. Its energy is associated with the earth element, symbolizing grounding and connection to the physical world. Its color is red, representing life force, strength, and vitality.

What Does the Root Chakra Influence?

When your Root Chakra is balanced, you feel:

• Grounded: Like you have your feet firmly planted, even when life gets chaotic.

• Secure: Emotionally and physically safe in your environment.

• Confident: Trusting yourself to meet your basic needs and navigate challenges.

• Present: Fully engaged in the moment without overwhelming fear or anxiety.

Signs Your Root Chakra Might Be Blocked

A blocked or imbalanced Root Chakra can manifest in both emotional and physical ways:

Emotional Signs:

• Chronic anxiety or fear: Feeling like you’re always on edge or in survival mode.

• Insecurity: Struggling with self-doubt or fear of failure.

• Disconnection: Feeling “floaty,” restless, or like you don’t belong anywhere.

• Obsessive need for control: Holding on tightly to routines or resisting change.

Physical Signs:

• Lower back pain

• Leg, foot, or hip issues

• Digestive problems

• Fatigue or feeling drained even after rest

Think of it like a house: if the foundation is cracked, the whole structure feels unstable. The Root Chakra is your energetic foundation.

What Causes a Blocked Root Chakra?

• Unstable environments growing up (financial struggles, family conflict)

• Major life changes (moving, job loss, relationship breakups)

• Trauma or fear-based experiences

• Neglecting basic self-care—like poor sleep, bad nutrition, or lack of routine

How to Unblock and Balance the Root Chakra

1. Ground Yourself in Nature

• Walk barefoot on grass, sand, or soil (“earthing” helps connect you to the earth’s energy).

• Spend time outside, even if it’s just sitting under a tree or feeling the sun on your skin.

2. Move Your Body Intentionally

• Yoga poses like Mountain Pose, Warrior I & II, and Tree Pose.

• Simple stretches focusing on the legs, hips, and lower back.

• Dancing, walking, or any movement that makes you feel present in your body.

3. Practice Mindful Breathing

• Root Chakra affirmation: As you breathe deeply, repeat silently or out loud:

“I am safe. I am grounded. I belong here.”

• Imagine a warm, red light glowing at the base of your spine, growing stronger with each breath.

4. Create a Sense of Stability

• Establish daily routines, even simple ones like morning stretches or evening tea.

• Declutter your living space to create an environment that feels safe and organized.

5. Nourish Your Body with “Earthy” Foods

• Root vegetables (carrots, beets, potatoes)

• Protein-rich foods (lentils, beans, nuts)

• Red-colored fruits (strawberries, apples, pomegranates)

6. Journaling Prompts for Reflection:

• When do I feel the most secure and grounded?

• What areas of my life feel unstable, and how can I create more balance?

• What does “home” feel like to me?

A Final Thought:

Balancing your Root Chakra isn’t about achieving perfection—it’s about creating a strong foundation so you can weather life’s ups and downs without losing your sense of self.

When you nurture this energy, you’ll find that you feel more present, more connected, and more at peace, even when the world around you shifts.

Perspective On Life Events And The Passage Of The Time

February 4, 2025 The Wild GemsLeave a comment

How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

First of all, I feel like I just had deja vu, that’s always a little weird.

But how do significant life events or the passage of time influence my life………….

they just do.

As these “significant life events” happen, or as time goes as it does…..it’s like, your vision becomes more and more clear.

And the funny thing is while you live you don’t even realize that you have blurry vision.

Think for a moment of those people who believe they have fairly good vision and then they visit the eye doctor and optometrist hands them a pair of glasses and then the person is in complete shock and disbelief and had no idea this level of detail could exist within the eyes!

That’s what it’s like.

I think I’m seeing clear or decent or whatever, only to be handed a new pair of “glasses”.

But it’s beautiful though isn’t……growing, learning, thinking we know things only to realize there is so much MORE. And the more has been around us the whole time.

It’s takes those significant moments and time to recognize the MORE.

And I can find beauty in that and be grateful for it.

Introduction to the Chakras: The Energy Within

February 2, 2025 The Wild Gems2 Comments

Have you ever felt out of balance without knowing exactly why?

Maybe you’ve experienced emotional blocks, physical tension, or a sense of disconnection from yourself.

This is where the concept of chakras comes in—a powerful framework for understanding the flow of energy within us.

The word chakra comes from Sanskrit, meaning “wheel” or “disk,” symbolizing spinning centers of energy in the body.

These energy centers are not just abstract concepts; they’re deeply connected to our physical health, emotional well-being, and spiritual growth.

When our chakras are balanced, we feel vibrant, grounded, and aligned. When they’re blocked or overactive, we may experience emotional struggles, physical discomfort, or a sense of being “stuck.”

There are seven main chakras, each associated with specific areas of the body and aspects of our lives:

1. Root Chakra (Muladhara) – “I Am”

• Location: Base of the spine

• Color: Red

• Element: Earth

• Significance: Grounding, stability, security, and survival needs

• Balanced: You feel secure, safe, and connected to the present moment.

• Blocked/-Imbalanced: Fear, insecurity, or feeling ungrounded.

2. Sacral Chakra (Svadhisthana) – “I Feel”

• Location: Lower abdomen, just below the navel

• Color: Orange

• Element: Water

• Significance: Creativity, emotions, pleasure, and relationships

• Balanced: You feel creative, emotionally balanced, and open to joy.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Emotional instability, guilt, or difficulty expressing desires.

3. Solar Plexus Chakra (Manipura) – “I Do”

• Location: Upper abdomen, near the diaphragm

• Color: Yellow

• Element: Fire

• Significance: Confidence, personal power, motivation, and self-discipline

• Balanced: You feel confident, strong, and in control of your life.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Low self-esteem, lack of direction, or anger issues.

4. Heart Chakra (Anahata) – “I Love”

• Location: Center of the chest

• Color: Green (sometimes pink)

• Element: Air

• Significance: Love, compassion, relationships, and emotional healing

• Balanced: You feel open, loving, and connected to others.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Jealousy, fear of intimacy, or emotional detachment.

5. Throat Chakra (Vishuddha) – “I Speak”

• Location: Throat

• Color: Blue

• Element: Ether (Space)

• Significance: Communication, self-expression, and truth

• Balanced: You express yourself clearly and authentically.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Fear of speaking up, dishonesty, or throat-related health issues.

6. Third Eye Chakra (Ajna) – “I See”

• Location: Between the eyebrows (forehead)

• Color: Indigo

• Element: Light

• Significance: Intuition, perception, wisdom, and inner vision

• Balanced: You trust your intuition and have a clear sense of purpose.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Confusion, lack of insight, or difficulty making decisions.

7. Crown Chakra (Sahasrara) – “I Understand”

• Location: Top of the head

• Color: Violet or White

• Element: Cosmic Energy

• Significance: Spiritual connection, enlightenment, and higher consciousness

• Balanced: You feel deeply connected to the universe and your higher self.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Feeling disconnected, lack of purpose, or spiritual doubt.

Understanding the chakras isn’t about perfection—it’s about awareness. It’s about tuning in, noticing where your energy feels blocked or imbalanced, and gently bringing yourself back into alignment.

In the posts to follow, I’ll break down each chakra, exploring its significance, signs of imbalance, and simple practices to help you feel more connected, both within yourself and with the world around you.

Your energy tells a story. Let’s start listening.

It’s OKAY To Feel PRETTY And To Say it OUT LOUD

January 31, 2025 The Wild Gems1 Comment

It’s not just okay—it’s important to feel pretty, beautiful, or confident in your own way. Feeling pretty isn’t about vanity; it’s about self-expression, self-care, and self-love.

Sometimes, especially as a mother or someone focused on caring for others, it’s easy to feel like putting energy into your appearance is “unnecessary” or even “selfish.” But it’s not! When you feel good about yourself—inside and out—it radiates into everything you do.

Feeling pretty can mean different things to different people. It could be:

• Wearing an outfit that makes you feel confident

• Taking care of your skin, hair, or posture

• Smiling and embracing your natural beauty

• Feeling strong and healthy in your body

• Expressing yourself through creativity, like makeup or fashion

• Simply recognizing your inner beauty and allowing it to shine

The other day, I took a selfie because, in that moment, I did feel pretty. But when it came time to post it, I hesitated. I started doubting myself, thinking, “What if someone sees this and thinks, ‘She’s not pretty’”.

But then I stopped and asked myself—Why am I so afraid to own this feeling? Why do we, as women, so often hesitate to celebrate ourselves?

So I decided to change the narrative. Instead of letting doubt win, I posted the selfie with the simple caption: “feeling pretty”. And that moment was freeing. Because feeling good about yourself is not something you have to hide. It’s something you can embrace, celebrate, and share—at any age, in any season of life.

I want other women and girls to know that it’s okay to feel good about yourself and to actually say it out loud. You don’t need permission to shine. You don’t need validation to embrace your beauty.

So if you feel pretty today, own it. Take the picture, wear the outfit, smile in the mirror, and don’t be afraid to share your light with the world. Because confidence isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being unapologetically yourself.

Be True To Your ESSENCE

January 31, 2025 The Wild Gems4 Comments

There is something within you that is completely unique, something that cannot be replicated, replaced, or erased. It’s not just your personality, your talents, or the roles you play in life—it’s something deeper. It’s your essence.

Your essence is the energy you bring into the world, the way you see things, the quiet knowing in your soul that whispers who you truly are. It’s not something you have to create—it’s something you already are. But in a world that constantly tells us who we should be, it’s easy to drift away from it.

The Layers That Cover You

From the moment we’re born, we absorb expectations. We learn to behave in ways that make others comfortable. We mold ourselves to fit in, to be accepted, to avoid rejection. Over time, layers build up—layers of what we think we should be.

• The layer of people-pleasing, where we silence our own needs to keep the peace.

• The layer of comparison, where we measure ourselves against others and feel like we come up short.

• The layer of self-doubt, where we hesitate to step into who we truly are.

But your essence is still there, waiting beneath it all. The real question is—are you listening to it?

Recognizing Your Essence

Being true to your essence doesn’t mean you have to be the loudest voice in the room. It doesn’t mean you have to change who you are—it means returning to who you’ve always been.

Ask yourself:

• When do I feel most alive?

• What makes me lose track of time?

• When do I feel like myself, without trying?

Your essence shines when you are in flow—whether that’s through creativity, deep conversations, being in nature, teaching, writing, moving your body, or simply being present.

Letting Go of What Isn’t Yours

To be true to your essence, you have to let go of the things that aren’t truly you. Not the parts of you that change and evolve, but the ones that were never yours to carry.

• Let go of the need to be understood by everyone—your essence is not for approval, it’s for expression.

• Let go of who you thought you had to be—growth is natural, but forcing yourself into a mold is not.

• Let go of the fear of shining—playing small doesn’t serve your soul.

Living in Alignment

Once you start honoring your essence, things begin to feel lighter. You no longer exhaust yourself trying to fit into a version of yourself that wasn’t meant for you. Instead, you:

• Speak with authenticity instead of saying what’s expected.

• Make choices that resonate instead of following a script.

• Surround yourself with people who see the real you instead of who they want you to be.

And the beautiful thing? The more you embrace your true essence, the more you inspire others to do the same.

You Are Here for a Reason

The world doesn’t need another copy. It doesn’t need you to shrink, shift, or shape yourself to fit someone else’s version of you. It needs you as you are.

So today, take a deep breath. Feel the weight of expectations fall away. And remember—being true to your essence is not something you have to earn. It’s something you simply have to allow.

Be you. Unapologetically. Completely. Fully. The world is better for it.

“What’s For Dinner?” Meal Planner — Digital Download Available

January 29, 2025 The Wild Gems1 Comment

Take the Stress Out of Mealtime with the “What’s for Dinner Meal Planner”!

Struggling with the age-old question, “What’s for dinner?” Let this meal planner help you organize your meals for the week with ease! Whether you’re meal prepping for the week or just trying to save time, this planner is designed to make your life easier and your evenings more enjoyable.

✨ Features:

✔ A weekly layout to plan your dinners

✔ Shopping list section to streamline your grocery shopping

✔ Easy-to-use and printable design

Perfect for busy families, meal planners, or anyone looking to save time and reduce stress in the kitchen! Just print it out and start planning your week—say goodbye to last-minute dinner chaos!

What’s Included:

• 1 High-Quality PDF (8.5×11”) – Ready to Print

• 1 PNG/JPG File – For Digital Use

Make mealtime simple, organized, and stress-free!

Soften The Heart: Devotional #27

January 29, 2025January 29, 2025 The Wild Gems2 Comments

“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours”

Mark 11:24

This verse holds a profound message about the power of faith and the unseen forces at work in our lives. It isn’t just about asking for something and expecting it to appear—it’s about aligning our hearts, minds, and actions with the belief that what we seek is already on its way.

When we pray, we are not simply making requests; we are entering into a relationship of trust with God. True faith means believing before seeing—knowing deep within that our prayers are heard and that the answers will come in the right way and at the right time. This belief shifts our mindset from doubt to expectation, from fear to confidence.

But this verse also challenges us: Do we truly believe? Often, we pray while holding onto doubt, questioning whether what we desire is possible. Yet, Jesus calls us to let go of that uncertainty and trust fully. When we pray with unwavering faith, we begin to act and live as if the answer is already unfolding. This shift in perspective opens doors, changes our energy, and aligns us with divine timing.

Faith-filled prayer isn’t just about receiving—it’s about transformation. It teaches patience, deepens our trust, and reminds us that even in the waiting, God is at work. So as you bring your hopes and dreams before God, pray boldly, believe fully, and trust completely.

Your blessing may already be on its way.

Feng Shui Tips For Your Purse To Attract Positive Energy And Abundance

January 29, 2025 The Wild Gems3 Comments

Your purse is more than just a place to carry your essentials—it’s a symbol of your wealth, energy, and personal flow.

In Feng Shui, the way you organize and care for your purse can influence your financial abundance, opportunities, and overall sense of harmony.

By treating your bag with intention, you invite prosperity and positive energy into your life. Ready to align your purse with good fortune? Here are some simple yet powerful Feng Shui tips to keep your bag (and your energy) in balance!

1. Choose the Right Purse

• Opt for a purse in colors associated with prosperity, such as red, gold, green, or purple. Black is also considered a powerful color for attracting wealth.

• Avoid worn-out or damaged purses, as they symbolize financial instability.

2. Organize Your Purse

• Keep your purse clean and clutter-free. Chaos inside your purse can block energy flow and symbolize financial disorganization.

• Only carry what you need to avoid unnecessary weight, as a heavy purse can symbolize being burdened by financial stress.

3. Use a Wallet for Money

• Invest in a high-quality wallet that reflects your respect for money.

• Keep cash flat and organized by denomination, as it symbolizes order and attracting more wealth.

4. Include Wealth-Attracting Items

• Place a small piece of citrine, jade, or pyrite (known as “fool’s gold”) in your purse to symbolize abundance.

• Carry a red envelope (hongbao), which is a traditional Chinese symbol for good fortune. You can put a small amount of money in it for prosperity.

5. Keep Important Items Only

• Avoid carrying old receipts, expired cards, or unnecessary items that may symbolize financial “baggage.”

• Only include things that spark joy or serve a purpose.

6. Treat Your Purse with Care

• Store your purse in a clean, elevated space when not in use. Never leave it on the floor, as this symbolizes disrespect for money.

7. Affirm Abundance

• When placing money into your purse, consciously express gratitude and visualize more abundance flowing into your life.