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Money Isn’t Lost; It’s Transferred Into *Abundance*

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We often look at money through the lens of subtraction. You swipe your card, hand over cash, and—poof—it’s gone.

There’s an almost automatic reaction of stress or scarcity, especially when the numbers in your bank account shrink.

But what if we shifted that mindset? What if, instead of seeing money as something that’s lost, we saw it as something that’s transferred into abundance?

When you spend $200 on groceries, it’s easy to focus on the dent it made in your budget. But pause for a moment. What did you receive in return? You didn’t just “lose” $200—you exchanged it for shelves stocked with food to nourish your family. You gained the convenience of not having to hunt, gather, or grow that food yourself. You have fresh produce, snacks for your kids, meals that will bring your family together around the table. That’s not a loss. That’s abundance.

Think about your morning coffee. Maybe you spend $5 at your favorite café. It’s not just coffee—it’s a warm ritual that starts your day, crafted by someone else so you didn’t have to grind the beans, boil the water, and perfect the brew. That small purchase buys comfort, convenience, and a little moment of joy.

Money is always an exchange. It’s never just disappearing into the void. It’s flowing—transforming into goods, services, experiences, and opportunities. The key is to recognize what it’s transforming into.

When we approach spending with gratitude for what we receive, the stress tied to money begins to loosen. Instead of thinking, “I had $200, and now I don’t,” we can think, “I’ve exchanged $200 for nourishment, convenience, and the ability to provide for my family.”

This mindset shift doesn’t ignore the importance of budgeting or financial responsibility. It simply reframes how we view the natural flow of money in and out of our lives.

By seeing spending as an investment in abundance—whether it’s food, shelter, education, or small joys—we soften the grip of scarcity thinking.

Now, just to be clear—I’m not saying,

“Okay, go wild and buy everything your heart desires!” — (“Put the online shopping cart down…don’t say YES to everything in your amazon “save for later” list.)

I’m simply offering a new way to look at your money—a way to encourage a healthier, more abundant relationship with it. One where spending isn’t just a loss, but a conscious exchange that brings value into your life.

So the next time you feel that sting of spending, ask yourself:

What abundance did I just receive in return?

This shift of mindset will also allow you to see how many blessings truly surround you.

You Have To Work Hard For The Things You Want

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This sounds like common sense, doesn’t it? We want things. We want so much. We want success, growth, purpose, and to make a difference. But many of us don’t want to put in the work. Or, we give up because we lack discipline and patience. The struggle is real, especially when we don’t see results right away.

Consistency is key. It’s vital to remind yourself why you’re doing what you’re doing. Knowing your “why” provides the fuel and motivation to push through challenges. It anchors you when the process feels long or the results seem far off. The truth is, the struggles can be hard and discouraging. But remember: hard work produces great fruit.

The greatest things in life are worked for, not handed to us. When we invest our time, energy, and dedication, we cultivate something truly meaningful—something we can fully appreciate because we’ve earned it. So, whatever it is you’re working toward, don’t give up. Stay the course. The effort is not just about achieving the end goal; it’s about becoming the person who can rise to the challenge, again and again.

A Lesson From A Tree

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We have this tree in our front yard. Originally, it was full of branches, lush with leaves, and provided such beautiful shade. Like all trees, it has its seasons, but we especially loved it in full bloom. It attracted so many birds and added so much life to our yard.

One day, we noticed a crack forming down the middle of the tree. We knew that, in time, it would eventually split. And sure enough, after some time, it did. The tree split all the way through, and my husband carefully cleaned up the fallen half. When I went outside and looked at what was left, I felt a pang of sadness. The tree wasn’t the same—it had lost a big part of itself that day, leaving our yard a bit bare. And yet, the tree remained standing.

I mourned what the tree had lost, but I also took a moment to celebrate all the beauty and shade it had provided over the years.

As much as we’d like to prevent these “splits” from happening, we unfortunately can’t. This is life, and it comes with aches and pains. But if a tree can remain standing after a huge loss and still continue to grow, withstanding both sunshine and storms, then it’s possible that we can, too. Remember—the tree is still standing.

We are like this tree. When we lose a part of ourselves, it’s natural to mourn. But it’s also an opportunity to celebrate—to honor the strength it took to remain standing and to hold hope for new growth. The parts we’ve lost have served us well. They’ve contributed to our growth and shaped who we are, and that’s something to remember with gratitude.

Whatever It Is, Just Start – You’ll Figure It Out Along The Way

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Honestly, what holds many of us back is the fear of what our peers might think. It’s wild, really—because they’re probably not as concerned as we imagine!

How someone views you often says more about them than it does about you. If someone mocks or criticizes, consider how they treat themselves. Those who truly love and support you will always be there, regardless.

Remember, you don’t need to please everyone, and you don’t have to. You know your reasons, and that’s enough. Keep that close to avoid the noise and stay true to your path.

And here’s the thing: You don’t need all the answers to start. Taking the first step is what sets the journey in motion. Trust that clarity and confidence will grow as you go. Every step forward brings insight, and before you know it, you’ll be far beyond where you started—proud that you chose to begin.

m.g.