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Perspective On Life Events And The Passage Of The Time

February 4, 2025 The Wild GemsLeave a comment

How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

First of all, I feel like I just had deja vu, that’s always a little weird.

But how do significant life events or the passage of time influence my life………….

they just do.

As these “significant life events” happen, or as time goes as it does…..it’s like, your vision becomes more and more clear.

And the funny thing is while you live you don’t even realize that you have blurry vision.

Think for a moment of those people who believe they have fairly good vision and then they visit the eye doctor and optometrist hands them a pair of glasses and then the person is in complete shock and disbelief and had no idea this level of detail could exist within the eyes!

That’s what it’s like.

I think I’m seeing clear or decent or whatever, only to be handed a new pair of “glasses”.

But it’s beautiful though isn’t……growing, learning, thinking we know things only to realize there is so much MORE. And the more has been around us the whole time.

It’s takes those significant moments and time to recognize the MORE.

And I can find beauty in that and be grateful for it.

Introduction to the Chakras: The Energy Within

February 2, 2025 The Wild Gems2 Comments

Have you ever felt out of balance without knowing exactly why?

Maybe you’ve experienced emotional blocks, physical tension, or a sense of disconnection from yourself.

This is where the concept of chakras comes in—a powerful framework for understanding the flow of energy within us.

The word chakra comes from Sanskrit, meaning “wheel” or “disk,” symbolizing spinning centers of energy in the body.

These energy centers are not just abstract concepts; they’re deeply connected to our physical health, emotional well-being, and spiritual growth.

When our chakras are balanced, we feel vibrant, grounded, and aligned. When they’re blocked or overactive, we may experience emotional struggles, physical discomfort, or a sense of being “stuck.”

There are seven main chakras, each associated with specific areas of the body and aspects of our lives:

1. Root Chakra (Muladhara) – “I Am”

• Location: Base of the spine

• Color: Red

• Element: Earth

• Significance: Grounding, stability, security, and survival needs

• Balanced: You feel secure, safe, and connected to the present moment.

• Blocked/-Imbalanced: Fear, insecurity, or feeling ungrounded.

2. Sacral Chakra (Svadhisthana) – “I Feel”

• Location: Lower abdomen, just below the navel

• Color: Orange

• Element: Water

• Significance: Creativity, emotions, pleasure, and relationships

• Balanced: You feel creative, emotionally balanced, and open to joy.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Emotional instability, guilt, or difficulty expressing desires.

3. Solar Plexus Chakra (Manipura) – “I Do”

• Location: Upper abdomen, near the diaphragm

• Color: Yellow

• Element: Fire

• Significance: Confidence, personal power, motivation, and self-discipline

• Balanced: You feel confident, strong, and in control of your life.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Low self-esteem, lack of direction, or anger issues.

4. Heart Chakra (Anahata) – “I Love”

• Location: Center of the chest

• Color: Green (sometimes pink)

• Element: Air

• Significance: Love, compassion, relationships, and emotional healing

• Balanced: You feel open, loving, and connected to others.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Jealousy, fear of intimacy, or emotional detachment.

5. Throat Chakra (Vishuddha) – “I Speak”

• Location: Throat

• Color: Blue

• Element: Ether (Space)

• Significance: Communication, self-expression, and truth

• Balanced: You express yourself clearly and authentically.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Fear of speaking up, dishonesty, or throat-related health issues.

6. Third Eye Chakra (Ajna) – “I See”

• Location: Between the eyebrows (forehead)

• Color: Indigo

• Element: Light

• Significance: Intuition, perception, wisdom, and inner vision

• Balanced: You trust your intuition and have a clear sense of purpose.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Confusion, lack of insight, or difficulty making decisions.

7. Crown Chakra (Sahasrara) – “I Understand”

• Location: Top of the head

• Color: Violet or White

• Element: Cosmic Energy

• Significance: Spiritual connection, enlightenment, and higher consciousness

• Balanced: You feel deeply connected to the universe and your higher self.

• Blocked/Imbalanced: Feeling disconnected, lack of purpose, or spiritual doubt.

Understanding the chakras isn’t about perfection—it’s about awareness. It’s about tuning in, noticing where your energy feels blocked or imbalanced, and gently bringing yourself back into alignment.

In the posts to follow, I’ll break down each chakra, exploring its significance, signs of imbalance, and simple practices to help you feel more connected, both within yourself and with the world around you.

Your energy tells a story. Let’s start listening.

It’s OKAY To Feel PRETTY And To Say it OUT LOUD

January 31, 2025 The Wild Gems1 Comment

It’s not just okay—it’s important to feel pretty, beautiful, or confident in your own way. Feeling pretty isn’t about vanity; it’s about self-expression, self-care, and self-love.

Sometimes, especially as a mother or someone focused on caring for others, it’s easy to feel like putting energy into your appearance is “unnecessary” or even “selfish.” But it’s not! When you feel good about yourself—inside and out—it radiates into everything you do.

Feeling pretty can mean different things to different people. It could be:

• Wearing an outfit that makes you feel confident

• Taking care of your skin, hair, or posture

• Smiling and embracing your natural beauty

• Feeling strong and healthy in your body

• Expressing yourself through creativity, like makeup or fashion

• Simply recognizing your inner beauty and allowing it to shine

The other day, I took a selfie because, in that moment, I did feel pretty. But when it came time to post it, I hesitated. I started doubting myself, thinking, “What if someone sees this and thinks, ‘She’s not pretty’”.

But then I stopped and asked myself—Why am I so afraid to own this feeling? Why do we, as women, so often hesitate to celebrate ourselves?

So I decided to change the narrative. Instead of letting doubt win, I posted the selfie with the simple caption: “feeling pretty”. And that moment was freeing. Because feeling good about yourself is not something you have to hide. It’s something you can embrace, celebrate, and share—at any age, in any season of life.

I want other women and girls to know that it’s okay to feel good about yourself and to actually say it out loud. You don’t need permission to shine. You don’t need validation to embrace your beauty.

So if you feel pretty today, own it. Take the picture, wear the outfit, smile in the mirror, and don’t be afraid to share your light with the world. Because confidence isn’t about being perfect—it’s about being unapologetically yourself.

Be True To Your ESSENCE

January 31, 2025 The Wild Gems4 Comments

There is something within you that is completely unique, something that cannot be replicated, replaced, or erased. It’s not just your personality, your talents, or the roles you play in life—it’s something deeper. It’s your essence.

Your essence is the energy you bring into the world, the way you see things, the quiet knowing in your soul that whispers who you truly are. It’s not something you have to create—it’s something you already are. But in a world that constantly tells us who we should be, it’s easy to drift away from it.

The Layers That Cover You

From the moment we’re born, we absorb expectations. We learn to behave in ways that make others comfortable. We mold ourselves to fit in, to be accepted, to avoid rejection. Over time, layers build up—layers of what we think we should be.

• The layer of people-pleasing, where we silence our own needs to keep the peace.

• The layer of comparison, where we measure ourselves against others and feel like we come up short.

• The layer of self-doubt, where we hesitate to step into who we truly are.

But your essence is still there, waiting beneath it all. The real question is—are you listening to it?

Recognizing Your Essence

Being true to your essence doesn’t mean you have to be the loudest voice in the room. It doesn’t mean you have to change who you are—it means returning to who you’ve always been.

Ask yourself:

• When do I feel most alive?

• What makes me lose track of time?

• When do I feel like myself, without trying?

Your essence shines when you are in flow—whether that’s through creativity, deep conversations, being in nature, teaching, writing, moving your body, or simply being present.

Letting Go of What Isn’t Yours

To be true to your essence, you have to let go of the things that aren’t truly you. Not the parts of you that change and evolve, but the ones that were never yours to carry.

• Let go of the need to be understood by everyone—your essence is not for approval, it’s for expression.

• Let go of who you thought you had to be—growth is natural, but forcing yourself into a mold is not.

• Let go of the fear of shining—playing small doesn’t serve your soul.

Living in Alignment

Once you start honoring your essence, things begin to feel lighter. You no longer exhaust yourself trying to fit into a version of yourself that wasn’t meant for you. Instead, you:

• Speak with authenticity instead of saying what’s expected.

• Make choices that resonate instead of following a script.

• Surround yourself with people who see the real you instead of who they want you to be.

And the beautiful thing? The more you embrace your true essence, the more you inspire others to do the same.

You Are Here for a Reason

The world doesn’t need another copy. It doesn’t need you to shrink, shift, or shape yourself to fit someone else’s version of you. It needs you as you are.

So today, take a deep breath. Feel the weight of expectations fall away. And remember—being true to your essence is not something you have to earn. It’s something you simply have to allow.

Be you. Unapologetically. Completely. Fully. The world is better for it.

“What’s For Dinner?” Meal Planner — Digital Download Available

January 29, 2025 The Wild Gems1 Comment

Take the Stress Out of Mealtime with the “What’s for Dinner Meal Planner”!

Struggling with the age-old question, “What’s for dinner?” Let this meal planner help you organize your meals for the week with ease! Whether you’re meal prepping for the week or just trying to save time, this planner is designed to make your life easier and your evenings more enjoyable.

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✔ A weekly layout to plan your dinners

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Perfect for busy families, meal planners, or anyone looking to save time and reduce stress in the kitchen! Just print it out and start planning your week—say goodbye to last-minute dinner chaos!

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Make mealtime simple, organized, and stress-free!

Soften The Heart: Devotional #27

January 29, 2025January 29, 2025 The Wild Gems2 Comments

“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours”

Mark 11:24

This verse holds a profound message about the power of faith and the unseen forces at work in our lives. It isn’t just about asking for something and expecting it to appear—it’s about aligning our hearts, minds, and actions with the belief that what we seek is already on its way.

When we pray, we are not simply making requests; we are entering into a relationship of trust with God. True faith means believing before seeing—knowing deep within that our prayers are heard and that the answers will come in the right way and at the right time. This belief shifts our mindset from doubt to expectation, from fear to confidence.

But this verse also challenges us: Do we truly believe? Often, we pray while holding onto doubt, questioning whether what we desire is possible. Yet, Jesus calls us to let go of that uncertainty and trust fully. When we pray with unwavering faith, we begin to act and live as if the answer is already unfolding. This shift in perspective opens doors, changes our energy, and aligns us with divine timing.

Faith-filled prayer isn’t just about receiving—it’s about transformation. It teaches patience, deepens our trust, and reminds us that even in the waiting, God is at work. So as you bring your hopes and dreams before God, pray boldly, believe fully, and trust completely.

Your blessing may already be on its way.

Feng Shui Tips For Your Purse To Attract Positive Energy And Abundance

January 29, 2025 The Wild Gems1 Comment

Your purse is more than just a place to carry your essentials—it’s a symbol of your wealth, energy, and personal flow.

In Feng Shui, the way you organize and care for your purse can influence your financial abundance, opportunities, and overall sense of harmony.

By treating your bag with intention, you invite prosperity and positive energy into your life. Ready to align your purse with good fortune? Here are some simple yet powerful Feng Shui tips to keep your bag (and your energy) in balance!

1. Choose the Right Purse

• Opt for a purse in colors associated with prosperity, such as red, gold, green, or purple. Black is also considered a powerful color for attracting wealth.

• Avoid worn-out or damaged purses, as they symbolize financial instability.

2. Organize Your Purse

• Keep your purse clean and clutter-free. Chaos inside your purse can block energy flow and symbolize financial disorganization.

• Only carry what you need to avoid unnecessary weight, as a heavy purse can symbolize being burdened by financial stress.

3. Use a Wallet for Money

• Invest in a high-quality wallet that reflects your respect for money.

• Keep cash flat and organized by denomination, as it symbolizes order and attracting more wealth.

4. Include Wealth-Attracting Items

• Place a small piece of citrine, jade, or pyrite (known as “fool’s gold”) in your purse to symbolize abundance.

• Carry a red envelope (hongbao), which is a traditional Chinese symbol for good fortune. You can put a small amount of money in it for prosperity.

5. Keep Important Items Only

• Avoid carrying old receipts, expired cards, or unnecessary items that may symbolize financial “baggage.”

• Only include things that spark joy or serve a purpose.

6. Treat Your Purse with Care

• Store your purse in a clean, elevated space when not in use. Never leave it on the floor, as this symbolizes disrespect for money.

7. Affirm Abundance

• When placing money into your purse, consciously express gratitude and visualize more abundance flowing into your life.

Refresh Your Spirit: Simple Techniques to Cleanse and Rebalance Your Energy

January 28, 2025January 28, 2025 The Wild Gems2 Comments

Our energy is deeply connected to our physical, emotional, and spiritual well-being, and just like our spaces and bodies need regular cleaning, our energy does too.

Over time, stress, negative emotions, or even the fast pace of life can leave us feeling heavy, stagnant, or out of balance. Luckily, there are simple, intentional practices we can use to release this buildup and restore a sense of lightness and clarity.

From grounding rituals to water-based cleansing and sound-based techniques, these methods can refresh your energy, calm your mind, and help you feel reconnected to yourself and the world around you.

Whether you’re looking to reset after a challenging day or simply maintain a healthy flow of energy, these practices are easy to incorporate into your daily life.

Water-Based Cleansing

1. Taking a Shower or Bath

• Visualize the water washing away negativity, stress, or heavy emotions. Add Epsom salt, essential oils, or herbs like lavender for extra cleansing.

2. Swimming in Natural Water

• Swimming in the ocean, a lake, or a river is believed to have purifying effects due to the natural flow of water.

3. Splashing Your Face

• A quick way to refresh your energy, especially if you feel emotionally or mentally drained.

Earth-Based Cleansing

4. Walking Barefoot

• Also called “grounding,” walking barefoot on grass, sand, or soil connects you to the earth’s energy and releases stress.

5. Holding Crystals

• Crystals like black tourmaline, selenite, or amethyst can help absorb negativity and promote energetic balance.

6. Gardening

• Working with soil and plants is a grounding activity that can clear stagnant energy.

Fire-Based Cleansing

7. Candle Meditation

• Light a candle and focus on its flame. Imagine its light burning away any negativity.

8. Burning Sage or Palo Santo

• Smudging your space or yourself with smoke is a traditional practice for clearing stagnant or negative energy.

Air-Based Cleansing

9. Deep Breathing Exercises

• Inhale deeply and exhale slowly to release tension and create a sense of calm.

10. Opening Windows

• Letting fresh air flow through your space helps remove stagnant energy.

Energy and Movement Cleansing

11. Dance or Yoga

• Moving your body helps release trapped emotions and restores energetic flow.

12. Meditation

• Focus on letting go of negativity and reconnecting with your inner calm.

13. Clapping or Snapping

• Walk around a room clapping or snapping your fingers to break up heavy energy.

Intentional Practices

14. Journaling

• Write down your worries or frustrations, then rip or burn the paper as a way to let them go.

15. Visualization

• Imagine a bright light surrounding you, pushing out anything heavy or negative.

16. Sound Cleansing

• Use a singing bowl, chimes, or even uplifting music to clear and refresh your energy.

How Often Should You Cleanse Your Energy?

The frequency of energy cleansing depends on your lifestyle, emotional state, and personal needs, but here are some general guidelines:

Daily Cleansing

• If you’re highly sensitive, empathic, or easily affected by others’ emotions, daily cleansing can help you stay balanced and grounded.

• Quick practices like a mindful shower, deep breathing, or visualization are great for daily resets.

Weekly Cleansing

• A more intentional, deeper cleansing—like smudging, using crystals, or a sound bath—can be done once a week to clear accumulated energy.

After Intense Experiences

• Cleanse after high-stress situations, conflict, or being in crowded spaces where the energy feels overwhelming.

• Also, after emotionally heavy conversations or intense work environments, a cleansing ritual can help release residual tension.

Monthly or Seasonal Cleansing

• Do a big energetic reset at the start of a new month, season, or moon phase to realign yourself with fresh intentions and clear old patterns.

*******Ultimately, listen to your intuition—if you feel drained, off-balance, or like you’re “carrying” energy that isn’t yours, it’s a sign to cleanse. Everyone’s rhythm is unique, so trust what feels right for you!**********

How To Use COLORS With Healing, Design, And Spiritual Use

January 24, 2025 The Wild Gems1 Comment

Colors are more than just visual elements—they carry energy that can influence our emotions, environment, and overall well-being.

From vibrant reds that ignite passion to soothing blues that foster calm, each color holds unique properties that can be harnessed in various ways.

Whether you’re designing a space, seeking spiritual alignment, or exploring the healing power of color, understanding these energies allows you to intentionally shape your surroundings and inner world.

In this post, we’ll explore how colors can be used for design, spiritual practices, and healing, offering insights to help you create harmony and balance in your life.

Spiritual Uses of Colors

Colors are often tied to spiritual practices, such as chakra work, meditation, and ritual:

1. Chakras:

• Each chakra is associated with a color that corresponds to its energy:

• Root (Red): Stability and grounding.

• Sacral (Orange): Creativity and emotions.

• Solar Plexus (Yellow): Confidence and willpower.

• Heart (Green/Pink): Love and compassion.

• Throat (Blue): Communication and truth.

• Third Eye (Indigo): Intuition and insight.

• Crown (Purple/White): Spiritual connection.

2. Meditation:

• Visualizing a specific color can help you tune into its energy:

• Green for healing.

• Blue for clarity and calm.

• Gold for spiritual illumination.

3. Rituals:

• Incorporate candles, crystals, or fabrics in your chosen color to enhance the energy of an intention (e.g., gold for abundance, lavender for peace).

Healing with Colors (Chromotherapy)

Colors can influence emotions, energy levels, and even physical well-being. Here are a few examples of how they’re used in healing:

1. Red: Stimulates energy and circulation. Often used for combating fatigue, but too much can be overwhelming.

• How to use: Wear red when you need a confidence boost or extra vitality.

2. Orange: Uplifts and energizes the mind. It can help with feelings of depression or creativity blocks.

• How to use: Decorate creative spaces with orange accents or light a candle with an orange hue.

3. Yellow: Balances the solar plexus chakra and supports mental clarity.

• How to use: Sit in sunlight or use yellow lighting when working on intellectual tasks.

4. Green: Soothes and restores balance. It’s associated with heart chakra healing.

• How to use: Meditate in nature or use green crystals like jade or malachite.

5. Blue: Calms the mind and supports throat chakra communication.

• How to use: Wear light blue for peaceful interactions or use it in bedrooms to encourage restful sleep.

6. Purple: Connects to intuition and spirituality, balancing the crown chakra.

• How to use: Burn lavender incense or decorate a meditation corner with violet hues.

Using Colors in Design

Colors can completely shift the energy of a space or piece of art. Here are some tips:

1. Warm Colors for Energy:

• Red, Orange, Yellow: Use in areas where you want activity and interaction, like a kitchen, dining room, or social area.

2. Cool Colors for Calm:

• Blue, Green, Teal: Perfect for bedrooms, bathrooms, or any space for relaxation.

3. Neutral Tones for Balance:

• Gray, Beige, White: Great for minimalist designs or grounding busy areas.

4. Pops of Color:

• Add small accents of bright colors like coral, lime green, or turquoise to liven up a neutral palette.

5. Color in Art and Fashion:

• Use color strategically in your wardrobe or creative projects to evoke specific emotions (e.g., black for sophistication, pink for gentleness).

Practical Suggestions to Work with Colors

1. Color Journaling:

• Reflect on how certain colors make you feel. Write about the emotions and memories they evoke.

2. Crystal Therapy:

• Use crystals that match the energies of the colors you’re drawn to (e.g., amethyst for purple, citrine for yellow).

3. Wardrobe Alignment:

• Wear colors that align with the energy you want to project or cultivate that day.

4. Seasonal Shifts:

• Embrace different color palettes throughout the year. Warm colors in fall and winter, cool tones in spring and summer.

5. Art Therapy:

• Paint or draw with the colors you’re most drawn to. Notice what themes or emotions emerge.

Happy *coloring* !

COLORS And Their ENERGIES

January 24, 2025 The Wild Gems1 Comment

Here’s a list of colors and the energies often associated with them, drawing from psychology, spirituality, and cultural symbolism:

Warm Colors

1. Red – Passion, energy, courage, strength, love, and determination. Can also symbolize anger or intensity.

2. Orange – Creativity, enthusiasm, joy, adventure, and vitality. It’s energizing and inspires social connections.

3. Yellow – Optimism, clarity, intellect, confidence, and warmth. It’s linked to happiness but can also represent caution.

4. Gold – Abundance, success, power, enlightenment, and spiritual wisdom.

Cool Colors

5. Green – Growth, balance, renewal, harmony, and health. It’s connected to nature and abundance but also envy.

6. Blue – Calmness, communication, trust, serenity, and loyalty. It represents introspection and emotional depth.

7. Turquoise – Healing, clarity, refreshment, and spiritual attunement. It’s linked to creativity and protection.

8. Purple – Intuition, spirituality, royalty, mystery, and ambition. It connects to higher wisdom and imagination.

9. Indigo – Perception, introspection, truth, and integrity. It’s associated with deep contemplation and the third eye.

Neutral and Earthy Tones

10. White – Purity, peace, clarity, simplicity, and new beginnings. It can also signify spiritual enlightenment.

11. Black – Protection, mystery, power, and sophistication. It represents the unknown and transformation.

12. Gray – Neutrality, balance, wisdom, and maturity. It can evoke calm or detachment.

13. Brown – Stability, reliability, grounding, and connection to the Earth. It signifies warmth and wholesomeness.

14. Beige – Practicality, simplicity, calm, and understated elegance.

Vivid and Ethereal Tones

15. Pink – Love, compassion, nurturing, playfulness, and romance. It’s soothing and tied to gentle emotions.

16. Magenta – Transformation, self-respect, emotional healing, and spirituality. It’s a blend of red’s passion and purple’s depth.

17. Lavender – Tranquility, grace, intuition, and femininity. It has a soft, calming energy.

18. Silver – Reflection, intuition, sensitivity, and lunar energy. It’s linked to the feminine and the mystical.

19. Copper – Creativity, grounding, and connection to Earth’s energy. It symbolizes warmth and transformation.

Bright and High-Energy Tones

20. Teal – Renewal, emotional balance, rejuvenation, and open communication.

21. Lime Green – Freshness, energy, and spontaneity. It carries a youthful, vibrant feel.

22. Coral – Joy, nurturing, and positivity. It bridges the energy of pink and orange.

23. Scarlet – Passion, vitality, and strong determination. It’s a fiery and intense color.

Rare and Mystical Colors

24. Violet – Spiritual connection, inspiration, higher purpose, and transcendence.

25. Crimson – Power, courage, and deep passion. It has a regal, bold energy.

26. Peach – Warmth, comfort, innocence, and friendship. It evokes a gentle, sweet nature.

27. Ivory – Elegance, calm, and spiritual purity. It’s softer than white but retains a sense of lightness.