One Topic That I Think Is Fascinating is……

Which topics would you like to be more informed about?

Quantum physics.

I had an incredibly deep conversation just the other day with ChatGPT about this topic because I wanted to understand it better.

Check it out. Mind blowing kinda stuff.

(Little bit of a read but worth it if you’re into that kinda stuff, which in my opinion is incredible stuff to know)

Me:

“Can you explain more to me about quantum physics? I understand better I feel in analogies and metaphors. Einstein said that if you cannot explain to a child then you don’t know it very well. And I want to understand this so I can explain it to my children.”

ChatGPT:

“That’s a great approach—Einstein’s idea about explaining things simply is key! Quantum physics can seem complex, but let’s break it down with metaphors and analogies.

The Basics of Quantum Physics

Quantum physics is the science that explains how the tiniest parts of the universe—like atoms and particles—behave. It’s very different from the everyday world we’re used to because these tiny particles don’t always follow the same rules as larger objects.

  1. The Ocean and Water Drops

Think of the universe like an ocean. In the ocean, there are individual drops of water, just like the universe has individual particles. In the ocean, these drops are part of something larger, and they move together, often unpredictably, with waves and currents.

Similarly, particles at the quantum level are part of a larger whole, and they behave in ways that seem unpredictable. Sometimes, a particle (like a drop) is “here” and “there” at the same time, or it can “decide” where to go only when you look at it. This is called superposition—just like a water drop in a wave, its exact position isn’t clear until you really focus on it.

  1. The Magic Coin Toss

Imagine tossing a coin, but instead of it landing on heads or tails, it stays in a “both heads and tails” state until someone looks at it. The moment you look, it decides which side to land on. This is similar to the observer effect in quantum physics. Particles exist in many possible states, but the moment you observe them, they “choose” a state.

  1. Twins with a Telepathic Connection

Now, imagine you have twin children who share a magical telepathic bond. No matter how far apart they are, if one gets hurt, the other immediately feels it. In quantum physics, this is called entanglement. When two particles become entangled, they stay connected even if they’re light-years apart. If you change something about one particle, the other one instantly changes, no matter the distance.

  1. The Fuzzy Dice

Picture rolling fuzzy dice, but these dice don’t behave normally. When you roll them, you might expect them to land on a specific number. In quantum physics, the dice represent particles, but instead of having one definite outcome, they can land in many different ways. You can’t predict exactly what number will show up until you observe it—it’s all about probabilities. This is quantum uncertainty, meaning we can never know everything about a particle, only the likelihood of certain outcomes.

Tying it Together

Quantum physics is like stepping into a magical world where particles don’t follow the normal rules. Things can be in two places at once, can be connected across huge distances, and outcomes are often uncertain until we observe them.

Some people think of quantum physics as having spiritual parallels because it hints that everything is interconnected, and consciousness (like observing the magic coin) may influence reality. It shows that the universe is far more mysterious and fluid than we can easily grasp.

Does this analogy help you understand it better?

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Our conversations continued but what do think about that! Is your mind not blown!

Maybe I’ll share the whole convo on another blog.

Xox Marie

My Life Without Music? HOW SAD!

What would your life be like without music?

I wouldn’t even have a life, are you kidding me! This was my first immediate thought. As I’m listening to music in this current moment.

In a nutshell it would be very depressing.

My life would be colorless, stagnant.

Nothing would ever bloom, and my life would starve for some rain.

Thank God for the universal language that WE DO HAVE.

Xox – Marie

It Was In A Health Class….

Describe something you learned in high school.

I took this health related class my junior year of high school with Mr. Paul Johnson. He was such a cool teacher.

I loved this class btw, I had a group of friends in here and I looked forward to this class everyday. We would laugh uncontrollably, tell secrets, notice things that others didn’t and honestly it was more of a giggle class than anything.

Anyways, we were taking a test and my friend was letting me cheat off her test. One of the questions was a fill in the blank.

It said,

“When in doubt, (fill in the blank)”

I could have sworn my friend wrote, “pull it out”.

So on my test I wrote, “when in doubt pull it out.”

I finished the rest of the test and my teacher begins grading our tests while he let us do whatever.

As my teachers grading at his desk he calls my name.

Mr Johnson: “Marie, come up here…..”

Me: “Yes….”

Mr. Johnson: “What does this say?”

Me: “Ummm……When in doubt pull it out?…..”

*we just stare at each other for a moment and I realize how inappropriate that sounded and that it definitely was not the answer*

Mr. Johnson: “It’s THROW IT OUT.”

Me. “That’s what Kristina wrote though!”

We all started laughing immediately! Me, the teacher, and my classmates! It was hilarious. I’m laughing now just reminiscing on this memory.

But guess what, I’ve never forgotten this saying because of this moment in a high school class.

I especially say it whenever I’m cleaning my fridge.

And I literally said this yesterday to my husband last night because he was asking if it was okay to take Benadryl that’s been expired for two years.

“I don’t know honey, I’ve always known, “when in doubt throw it out.”“

That is something I have learned in high school.

Skydiving

What’s the thing you’re most scared to do? What would it take to get you to do it?

This is random but you know what I would love to do but just can’t…..

Is SKYDIVE!

I so wish I had the courage to skydive but I just don’t.

I don’t enjoy flying and I’m pretty sure I’d have a panic attack in the sky.

But I love watching skydiving videos on instagram. It’s seems so liberating and the views, wow the views…… I can only imagine.

Complaining Just Brings Others Down

What do you complain about the most?

I don’t really complain. At least I don’t consider myself one who does. And I think deep down I know I don’t have the right to complain.

But I do vent. Mostly to my mom, thank God for her.

“Complaining is a defence against the courage to change, while venting addresses the issues and inspires you take action.”

A Person That Reads Lives A Thousand Lives

What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time?

Reading.

There’s nothing like discovering a book that you just can’t put down because you’re eager to know, you’re eager to learn and grow, you’re eager to soak up and then disperse what you learn.

If it’s a really good book I can make time almost anywhere to read a few pages.

Do you enjoy reading?

You have to a little bit if you’re reading this. 🙂

Kids Will Teach You

Do you play in your daily life? What says “playtime” to you?

All the time.

Staying playful is feeling young and nostalgic in so many ways.

There’s a time and place to be a grown up. But I think most days should be filled with “playtime”.

It’s all about being silly, laughing, doing something random where you even make yourself laugh.

If you still don’t know how to bring playtime into your life just watch kids. Watch them intently and observe how they act.

Have you ever done a riddle?

Usually when you find out the answer it’s so completely obvious. You think, “how in the world did I not figure that out”

Incorporating playtime in your life is that simple.

Seems complex, but it’s as simple as an answer to a funny little riddle.

Pets Are Special

What is good about having a pet?

In general pets are good teachers. They teach us about patience, responsibility, discipline, even love.

Pets have a way of providing comfort that a human can’t. When we don’t want the company of other humans pets are there for us. Non-judgmental, eager to be still with us.

We hold them in our hands, on our laps, they rest their head on ours, we rest our head on theirs and no language is spoken. But words do not need to be exchanged, we can feel that presence of companionship, love, healing…

They help us not to feel so lonely, they make us laugh when they do funny/cute things. They let you do silly things to them and they just go with it.

Pets are like angels. They give us much more than we can ever give them.

Putting It All On The Table

What’s the biggest risk you’d like to take — but haven’t been able to?

Allowing myself to be fully transparent on this blog. Ugh, sometimes there are things that I really want to share but I just can’t yet. And truthfully it frustrates me.

I feel like if I do allow myself to be completely raw it will be like opening Pandora’s box and that kinda scares me.

Love Your Neighbor As Yourself – (Good Reminder)

What makes a good neighbor?

Well, let me tell you about our neighbor Bill. He’s an awesome neighbor.

First let me share how I met this particular neighbor of ours. A couple of years ago I was driving home and pulled over to check the mail. I had my 3 daughters with me (the oldest ones were 3 I believe at the time) and our little dog, Calbie (bless his heart and soul).

As I was checking the mail Calbie jumped on the window and locked the car door from the inside. Which then locked me out with nothing but a mail key and a handful of junk mail.

I just stood there for a moment processing what had just happened. I was proud of myself for not really panicking. I was more like, “damn this sucks, my phones in there too…..”. I tried to encourage my girls to unbuckle their seatbelts to unlock the door but they couldn’t. Can you believe that! Ha!

All of a sudden this guy pulls up in a white truck with a trailer of landscaping supplies (thank goodness I wasn’t standing there long!) . He asked me what had happened, I explained, and come to find out in that small moment that he lives in the house behind ours.

Long story short another neighbor (John, whom I just pretty much met as well) pulls up close to the same time and immediately takes me to my house while Bill (the neighbor I just met too) stays and watches my kids so I can get the spare set of keys.

Essentially I got in the car with a stranger and let a stranger watch my helpless children. Trust good vibes.

Just in that small moment I saw how amazing my neighbors were and still are.

Bill particularly has become one of our good friends. Came to found out he’s a retired executive chef too, so we get to reap those rewards often. It’s awesome, he made these bacon wrapped dates this one time that I still think about. He also makes this amazing soup filled with shredded meat and lots of veggies that can cure any stress in your life!

He spoils our children with goodies weekly and our kids just love him. I joke that our dentist needs to send him a thank you card since he gives them so much sweets. We’ve come to know his wife and kids and on occasions have all got together for a game of cards or lunch. His wife and daughter have horses (they are barrel racers) and we often pay them a visit during evening feedings and our kids enjoy that. Especially one of our daughters whom they have let her ride a few times!

But our neighbor Bill is a real gem. He is always willing to lend a helping hand or make us laugh with joke just to cheer us up. He thinks of us and makes us feel special.

He’s a good neighbor. Thank you Bill.