My Daughter Got Splinters In Her Foot And I Discovered A Spiritual Lesson In The Incident

You’ve probably heard someone say once or twice before, God is good. And how would you define that phrase?

I feel like I’ve had some type of revelation and I’m excited to share it. God is good.

In the past whenever I would hear that phrase I would repeat to myself, God is good. But then think, what does that even really mean?

How do we interpret that? Well for one, we can look around at nature and be astonished.

Like, are you aware of what an octopus can do! It’s pretty spectacular. That in itself points to an incredible creator.

But God also reveals his work and skills in tribals and in times of distraught.

Let me share a little story that just took place a couple of days ago. A story of my daughter getting some deep splinters and what unraveled into a spiritual lesson.

At our house we have a little wood deck that my husband actually made. Picture a yard of turf, then you can two steps onto this wood deck that bridges to a giant sand pit.

Our daughters have so much fun in our backyard. Tons of laughing and imagination. My husband and myself always say how much we love just watching our children play. It’s truly a blessing.

Well one late afternoon the girls and I had just got back from picking up a half pepperoni and half cheese pizza. The girls raced to the trampoline to play with the puppies that we just recently got (2 border collie pups, too cute. But they chew on everything!) I shouted to come inside to eat and then………

Then, I hear screaming. I look out the window and my 3 year old is sitting on the wood deck, head down, crying hysterically. Echoing through out the neighborhood. My other daughter is shouting, “‘mom! She has a splinter!” I knew it was bad. This wasn’t the first time that this type of situation has happened.

I had just sat down too and taken two bites out of my pizza. I thought of course, this is parent life. I walk over to the deck nonchalantly (I’ve learned it’s best to not react too much when they’re in distress. Makes it way worse) and look at her foot. I see it and think, shit.

There’s 2 splinters that are deep in her foot. These won’t be easy to pull out with just tweezers, she’s going to need “surgery”. I call my husband and tell him what happened. Luckily he was already on his way home from work. He tells me to soak her foot in water. I take her to the bathtub.

That was a struggle as you can imagine with a 3 year old. Although it quickly became a party in the bathroom. Her sisters were there fully supporting her. One is feeding her pizza while the other is making her laugh with silly gestures. Her foot is soaking in the water, she’s got a lollipop in her hand, a “bravery” light up watch/bracelet, and her unicorn baby doll. At this point she’s calmed down a little.

Then dad gets home.

She begins to cry hysterically all over again which I totally understand. It’s like when someone asks, “are you okay?” when you’re totally not and you begin to uncontrollably cry. We’ve all been there right?

My husband looks at her foot and with no hesitation but complete confidence says, “I can get those out.” In my head I’m thinking, ummm are you sure, did ya see her foot, and I even suggest urgent care. I reiterate that they are deep and I don’t know if he can do it. My confidence in him is slim.

He says, we’ll wait till she’s asleep. Or we can leave it and let her body reject it. I wasn’t for the latter, I wanted those wood pieces out of her tiny little foot. Splinters can be painful! We all know this.

She quickly falls asleep, I’m sure to the exhaustion of crying. My husband gets all prepped up for “surgery”. I say that with a sense of humor. Our daughter rests on our bed. I give him his space while checking periodically on the both of them.

In this inconvenient moment I think about how amazing my husband is and I think about what a great dad he is too. This is when God comes to mind and the spiritual message enters.

In this moment my husband revealed to me once again what he’s capable of. I saw him in a different light caring for our daughter, coming to her rescue, and even our other daughters took notice watching their daddy take care of their baby sister. As one of my daughters watches from afar she says, “Daddy’s my hero”.

I believe God works and reveals Himself in similar ways. How would we know how great God was if it wasn’t for the hard times. How could God show us what He’s actually capable of doing if it weren’t for those muddy waters that we get caught in? It’s in these times of fear and pain and discomfort that God steps in and says, “I got you, wait till you see how I’m going to heal you and make this better again.”

Do we trust God? Let’s be honest, not always. Like my 3 year old daughter with splinters in her foot, instead of surrendering her foot and letting us help her she held her foot close to her and kept it restricted. We had to wait till she was asleep before we could even touch it!

It’s these moments, which can be unbearable moments that actually bring us closer to God. He reveals different sides that we never knew. We learn more of Gods capabilities, powers, and healing through these moments.

My daughter getting those splinters sucked. But because of those stubborn/painful splinters I got to witness my husband caring for our daughter. So gently he took those out of her foot without her barley even noticing. My daughters watching from afar developed a new level of trust in their Daddy.

I do believe God works like this. And you know what? Yeah, God IS good. He takes unfortunate events and uses them to bring us closer to Him. God reveals that He can remove “splinters” and more. He can make those pains better. And sometimes like my 3 year old, we don’t surrender to Him. But it doesn’t even matter. He’s going to take care of us anyway.

If you want to recognize how God has been good in your life think for a moment of some difficult times. And think about the good that came from those times.

Read between the lines of your life and you’ll see and you’ll know how present God is.

Would love to hear how God has worked in your life or would love to hear a simple moment turned spiritual.


The splinters
The culprits.
When he pulled the first one out.

Thank you for reading! 🙂

25 Cute Breakfast Art Ideas That Will Make Your Children Or A Loved One Smile

Cute breakfast food art doesn’t have to just be for children! As I was searching for ideas for my girls I thought, you know what, my husband would loved these too.

Which is why the title is for ‘A Loved One’ .

I’m so excited to try some of these out.

Which numbers will you make?

Note: Most of these photos don’t have watermarks so I don’t know who should receive credit! If any readers know please let me know!


1.

This would be perfect for Valentine’s Day or maybe an anniversary.

2.

Cute little Owls.

3.

So simple! Bear cubs.

4.

A healthier kind of ice cream.

5.

Spring Pancakes!

6.

Imagine making this as a hint and surprising your kids with a trip to Disneyland!

7.

So cute!

8.

A bear that’s cute and you can eat!

9.

Piggy.

10.

Cheetah.

11.

Love the little strawberry sunflower.

12.

Perfect for our malt o meal breakfast days.

13.

Perfect if you love coconut flakes.

14.

This owl has beautiful eyelashes.

15.

Imagine being served this as a surprise breakfast :).

16.

Too cute!

17.

Ladybug.

18.

Another piggy inspiration.

19.

Bagel and cream cheese and berries. yum.

20.

For the one that loves butterflies.

21.

Spider-Man.

22.

Crabby.

23.

Perfect for The Holidays.

24.

Piggy with strawberries.

25.

Cute flower.

Which on is your favorite?

25 Funny And Cute Doggy Pictures To Make Anyone Smile

1.

When you tell your kid to go clean their face.

2.

But I’m not tired yet.

3.

But first, coffee.

4.

Case of the Mondays.

5.

When playing hide and seek with a toddler.

6.

“Mama can you snuggle me?”

7.

Netflix and chill ready.

8.

I’m the real seal, I mean deal.

9.

Weeeeee

10.

Friends call me chef.

11.

You can’t sit with us.

12.

Don’t hate me because I’m beautiful.

13.

Big pimpin’.

14.

Paws and claws done.

15.

Hi.

16.

Delicate cycle or heavy?

17.

She doesn’t even go here.

18.

My bologna has a first name.

19.

The WiFi isn’t working.

20.

I’m sorry, you want me to do what?

21.

Benddddd and SNAP.

22.

I’m not tired, you’re tired.

23.

Self care.

24.

You bake at 350 and then you’re going to want to flip them at the ten minute mark.

25.

That’s hot.

2022 End Of Year Reflections With The Gems

Worksheet Credit: Bohobeautifullife

Yesterday morning we sat down at the dining table that is covered in scratches and memories with a black and white notepad and a blue R.S.V.P. pen and we discussed and wrote down our reflections for the year. I was originally going to do this personally but then I thought it would be super fun and interesting to listen to my daughters answers on these specific questions. I also felt it would be some overall good bonding time.

It was an opportunity to really recognize our accomplishments and things that we each want to work on.

It was very humorous listening to their responses. They each listened to each other and we giggled about things that we actually forgot until we were encouraged to remember. Now that we have finished our reflections I think we’ll look at some photos from this year and begin our 2023 visions.

love from TheWildGems

Little Gems: “13 Ways To Be A Good Friend”

I asked my two 5 year olds D and E what it means to be a good friend and these were their responses.

So cute. I think we could all be a better friend.

1. When someone falls down, you help them up.

2. Don’t push each other.

3. Say sorry if you hurt someone.

4. Don’t fight.

5. Love each other.

6. Take pictures of each other.

7. Be kind.

8. Play together.

9. Love.

10. Eat lunch together.

11. Eat Breakfast Together

12. Have play dates and sleepovers together.

13. When they get hurt run to them, and if they are bleeding, get them a bandaid.

(Note: 1-6 are D, and 7-13 are E)